Reset Your Mindset: Embracing New Perspectives in Business and Parenting
Let’s talk perspective. You know, that word that means both the art of drawing something so it looks real on a flat surface and your unique point of view on life. I love that because it reminds us that how we see the world is all about context—everything shifts when you look at it from a different angle.
A few nights ago, my kids were up all night again—thanks to a mix of sickness and life’s unpredictable curveballs. By 4:30 a.m., I was second-guessing everything I’d been confident about just hours before. It was one of those brutal nights where exhaustion makes you question if you’re even doing this whole parenting thing right. But after catching a much-needed nap around 9 a.m., I woke up with a bit of clarity. It’s amazing how a few extra hours of sleep can reset your entire outlook, making problems seem a little less monstrous.
This isn’t just about surviving a rough night at home—it applies to business too. Over the years, running multiple ventures has thrown plenty of surprises my way, both expected and totally off the radar. What really sets successful entrepreneurs apart isn’t just raw hustle or unshakable confidence—it’s having the right perspective. When you’ve tackled bigger challenges before, you know that the current setback is just another puzzle to solve. On the flip side, if you’re new and every hiccup feels like a disaster, that’s just because your perspective hasn’t been refined yet.
So, how do we train our perspective? For me, it’s all about reflection. I take a step back, look at everything I’ve accomplished—even when I’m deep in the “gap” instead of celebrating the “gain”—and remind myself of the progress I’ve made. A great tip is to journal about your wins, no matter how small, or even chat with a coach who can help shine a light on the blind spots. That honest, sometimes messy reflection helps me see that even the rough patches have value, and that’s where growth happens.
Today, I challenge you to pause and really reflect on your journey. Recognize the habits you’ve built, the challenges you’ve overcome, and even those moments when everything felt like too much. When you shift your perspective, you might find that what felt like chaos is really just the prelude to a breakthrough. Remember, the best views come after the hardest climbs—and your unique perspective is your secret weapon for turning exhaustion and uncertainty into fuel for growth.